New Haven is nothing like I ever imagined. I am very happy today. Before New Haven I honestly could not even have imagined a life or a future for myself- it felt like there was just no hope for me. Today, I feel the exact opposite. I look back and see the past as merely steppingstones to the bright future ahead. I have so many amazing things to live for and have grown into someone who I am truly proud of.
New Haven taught me the importance of building a robust support network and a plan for activating that network when I need support. I learned how to ask for what I need and how to reciprocate that support. Before New Haven, my relationships were toxic, one-sided, and bonded by negativity. The relationships I have with my close friends now are deep and fulfilling; they are rooted in kindness, mutualism, gratitude, and a rich, unmistakable love. New Haven equipped me with tools in my toolbox that I still use today.